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Who is going to the Chinese New Year in the Spring Festival? Who buys a house and who pays more?

Time: 2018-02-12         Source: Rong 360 original         Author: Desert Heart

The Lunar Year of the Dog is getting closer and closer to us. The majority of married men and women are happy at the end of the year, and there is another headache that needs to be solved. That is, who is going to the Chinese New Year in the Spring Festival, especially for The only child family. In order to dispute this issue, there are many people who argue and even fight for divorce. However, from the perspective of traditional concepts and the new era, there are two extremes.Rong 360 said roomJun (fangdai123) feels worth mentioning.

  A daughter-in-law is in her husband's house for the New Year.

According to the traditional concept, the water that the married daughter has poured out, the daughter-in-law must of course spend the New Year in her family. Netizen Lulu said that she and her husband are both only children, and they grew up with their parents for the New Year. In the first year of marriage, there is still one month away from the Spring Festival. Lulu’s parents told her that the Spring Festival is safe in the New Year’s Day, and they don’t have to remember their old couple. Lulu is very puzzled. I originally wanted to discuss with my husband whether the two parents can take turns every year. Other parents are looking forward to the children going home for the New Year. This is the province’s own heart.

However, not all married daughters hope that their little cotton jackets will live in the New Year. Netizen Xiaotao said that when she first married, her mother cried in tears. When she was in the first year of the New Year, her husband said that his family’s tradition was that the daughter-in-law had to live in the New Year’s house. The little tomato did not work, and she had a quarrel with her husband. She will go back to her family for the New Year. Later, the two also felt that this was not a long-term problem. In the end, they decided that the two families were not far away. They were at this house at noon and at that night.

If all the young couples can be like the above-mentioned netizen Lulu and the Little Tomato House, there is a default solution, or it is okay to sit down and negotiate a solution. The times are changing, there are always more innovative ways to open your eyes.

  Who buys a house and who pays back more?

A seemingly happy marriage is always intentionally or unintentionally related to matter. Although Liu Chong and his daughter-in-law are not only children, they are different from the conventional way of thinking in the face of the problem of returning to the New Year. Whoever buys a house will return to the New Year.

At the beginning, Liu Chong bought a house with his wife. The father-in-law’s down payment was almost full. The financial ability of his family was limited. He only took a fraction of it, but for Liu Chong’s parents, it was already a lot of money. When I got married, my parents didn't agree. I didn't have enough money to abandon Liu Chong's family. Later, I felt that Liu Chong was good and went forward, and I reluctantly agreed. The new house is in Beijing. The two homes are one south and one north. There are great differences in living habits. Liu Chong’s parents are more traditional. They think that the wife should be in the Chinese New Year, and they have done their best to buy the house. The rules of the New Year cannot be change.

In the first year, it triggered a cold war without smoke. Liu Chong’s wife said: “My family has paid for it and contributed to it. I also took it to me alone. Why do you listen to your family?” Liu Chong is a chronic child, usually speaking. I didn't talk loudly with my wife. I didn't dare to say anything at this time. I could only appease. Then I went to persuade my parents to get through, and I will return to my hometown next year and reluctantly agree.

The matter did not end there. In the year of the 11th holiday, I returned to Liu Chong’s house. The old couple mentioned that they went home for the New Year. The face of Liu Chong’s wife immediately pulled down. As expected, it was not good to go home. Scattered.

Liu Chong was in the middle of the murder. His wife and her mother went to the hometown for the Chinese New Year. When the wife became pregnant, she would not dare to go home in front of her. My mother refused to come to Beijing to help her children. Liu Chong had to invite his father-in-law, who had been in Beijing for a few years after his birth. The reason for my wife is very simple: your family pays so little, let us move, no way!

Liu Chong even thought about divorce at one time, but he thought that the young child would endure. He complained that he had no ability to do so. He should not let his parents pay so much money to buy a house, which is now very passive. Although the wife later said that she can work in the New Year, but the mother is still not retreating, it is really a headache.

Everyone has this difficult experience, some people do not ask their children to come back, some do not let back; some habits say: How do I get used to it; some people say: Why do you want to move to your home, your parents are parents, my dad Mom is a lonely old couple... This is faintly able to see the controversy caused by the house, whoever is financially strong will be hard. But then again, the marriage is a family, why bother with the enemy, more communication and understanding of tolerance, less quarrel can you Hello, everyone.

Finally, leave an open topic for everyone:Who is going to go to the New Year in the spring, how did you decide?Welcome everyone to leave a message.

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