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If a friend borrows money, how can he not sin and refuse to lend him?

Time: 2018-01-03         Source: Rong 360 finishing         Author: JA

When people are born in the world, when there are difficulties, it is the so-called penny that is a hero. For borrowing money, I treat it in two ways:


First, a reputable friend

For those who have multiple loan relationships, there are friends who have borrowed and returned. As long as he borrows money, I will generally do my best and borrow directly from my own ability. When people are alive, when there are difficulties, as long as they have good reputation and have the ability to pay debts, they can generally borrow. As for how much to borrow, it will lend according to your own ability without affecting your own life. Generally, when the old debt is not paid, and the new debt is borrowed, it can be borrowed at most three times depending on the situation.

Second, the method of refusing to borrow money

(1) For a better friend, a friend with a better relationship, the old debt is not repaid, and the new debt is borrowed: directly remind him that “the borrowing of money is good, the money is sometimes paid”, the old debt in front is gone, no longer Borrow, ask him to find another way and urge him to pay the old debt. Such friends know the roots, do not need to compile reasons, directly refuse, will not hurt friendship.

(2) Borrowing money from old classmates and fellows who have not been in contact for many years: Now he understands his economic situation and his ability to pay debts. If the result is that his or her person is believable, then lend him half of his ability, and only once. If you know that his debt situation is not good, talk directly to him about old friendship, mention borrowing money, then take care of it, let him know how to retreat; if he still finds you borrow money, then send it to people. After he borrowed money from you for the second time, you immediately asked him to borrow money, so he would not borrow money from you.

(3) Borrowing money from colleagues and students who are in constant contact: If it is the first friend, please refer to the title one to solve. If it is not the first situation, it can be solved as follows: 1. Recommend him to Alipay, 360 debit, Jingdong Baizhi and other online debt platform; 2. Directly indicate to him that he has no money to borrow; 3. Tell him about his own difficulties. 4, let him find other students to borrow money; 5, anti-customers to find him to borrow money; 6, transfer their own Alipay, WeChat money to reliable people, only a few dozen or a few hundred balance, and then show him a screenshot; 7. If you can't borrow money, you can block all his information and let him not contact you.

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